There's a Saying that ..

"You can close your Eyes to the things you don't want to See, But you can't close your Heart to the things you don't want to Feel. "

We can simply close our eyes on those things we don't want to see but why is it hard for us to close our hearts to those things we don't want to feel to lessen the Pain ?

if we can only close our hearts to the things we don't want to feel then maybe we wouldn't have the feeling of being Hurt, causing us too much Pain. No more Heartache, No more Heart Breaks, No more Pain, No more Sorrow, No more Sadness & Loneliness. we might as well be happy & contended with our loved ones at all time.

it is hard to pretend that your fine even though your not. trying to hide what you really feel, for them not to notice you've got hurt. Pretending there's nothing wrong.

why cant we just be happy without getting hurt ? :(((
why is it to Love a person cause us too much Pain ?

Love is Like Handing Someone a Gun, having Them Point it at your Heart and Trusting Them to Never Pull The Trigger.

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NP: Just Let it Go By: 4tune
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ciVGq6iIh4

Relationships ? what does it really mean to be 'in a Relationship ? how'd we manage a Good Relationship with our partners ? how can each relationship be called 'Compatible for Each other' & 'Perfect Two' ?

These are the few questions i always want to ask. But come to think of it. Having these questions cannot give you any possible answer. why ? Relationship is related to Love, and we all know that Love, is hard to define.

Relationship coming from the word "Relation" is a Connection between a two individual person in any aspects. To be 'in a Relationship' means to be "in a Special Connection" with that person. And that Special Connection can only be answered by the BOTH of you. As what i'd told you a while ago this is ONLY a possibility definition, Their is No exact definition of this.

There's No 'Perfect Love' as 'Perfect for Each other' because since the beginning of creation we are already made 'imperfect'. There's No Perfect Relationship and everyone knows that. *Now, if you don't know that then now you know !

Everyone Experience to be Love but it is more Sufficient to earn Love when you're in a Relationship *I'm not saying that you need  to get your self be involve into a relationship just to earn Love but to have that Special Connection gives you a special feeling.

Yes, There is No 'Perfect for Each other' but there might be 'Compatible for Each other'. How ? By having a Healthy Relationship. *And that "Healthy Relationship" ? i might wrote about that as Soon as i have Time :) haha.

As for My 1st Authors Blog Post, i Hope that i had gave you a meaningful meaning of what Relationship means. Though i feel that this Post So Complicated and i Find it kinda Lack of information this is what i can give you for now. :)


wishing you a Merry Christmas
& a Blessed New Year to Everyone :)
Chao ! <3
--Estephanie May
*inspired*