Dalawang Bagay lang ang nabibigay ng Salitang "Bahala na", ito ay Kalungkutan/Pagdaramdam o di kaya'y Kasayahan. Kalungkutan/Pagdaramdam kung nagbigay ito ng tinatawag na "kamalasan" o hindi maganda ang naidulot na kinalabasan, Kasayahan naman kung nagdulot ito ng magandang resulta o kinalabasan. Ex. May Quiz kayo sa isang Subj. ngunit ika'y lumiban sa klase at sinabi mong "bahala na" *(di magandang resulta) sa kasamaang palad nagbigay ng 30/50 items quiz ang iyong guro at may plus (+) pa sa Final exam. *(magandang resulta) sa kabutihang palad hindi dumating ang inyong guro sa klase.
 
"...You Cannot Please Everyone to Like You."
This is what i always say to my self, every time someone tells bad things about me or even worst, those who don't like me at all.
"... Change for the Better."
Yes, you can always change yourself for the better, but even though you already change "Almost Everything" that they hated about you, You should know that .. STILL there will be times that something in you that they'll not like or vice versa (telling you to go back to your old you). and again and again they'll try to tell you that you should change it, For the better or even for being worst !

There is no harm in changing what people wanted You to change but if the situation was always being like that what should you do ? Should You Change All Over and Over Again ? or Should You Be Just The Way You Are ?

People have their different kinds of sense in fashion, like, dislike, perspective, etc. Like for example your friends, not all of you have the same taste in fashion nor both in thinking and in some point of views.

You see, we are made by God uniquely that's why we cannot tell or even see what's wrong about us because you're being Just The Way You Are !

And as for me, i choose to be me. Why should i change what they don't like about me? i was made by God, Just the way i'am. But well, i might try changing some of those things that people don't like about myself, there's .. no harm in trying, right ? :) ill just need to figure out of all those things will make me a better person in the future.
 
It is Sad to Read Some Trending Post on Twitter, FB, Etc. About *"Genesis 8:7-12 is about Noah's Ark. Today is 8-7-12 Coincidence? But remember God's promise land. :)"*

If You'll Gonna Read The Scriptures [The Bible] The Story About Noah's Ark Doesn't Start From "Genesis 8:7-12" It Started From All of The Verse of Genesis in Chapters 6-8 :)

And If You Really Do Read Your Bible, God Promised After The Flood in Noah's Ark Story That He will Never AGAIN wipe People on Earth Through The Use of Water and The Rainbow Represents His Covenant About This.

Let Us Not Misinterpret The Bible. It is Sad to Think That Many People Agreed to That Post without Figuring Out For Themselves.

Remember, It was Written in The 10 Commandments of God on Exodus 20:7 That "You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name."

#Just Pray For Our Country Philippines, Yun nlng Ang Gawin natin Kesa Mag Post ng Kung Ano-Ano. Yun Lng. God Bless Everyone & The Philippines. 

http://www.twitlonger.com/show/inruul 
 
There's a Saying that ..

"You can close your Eyes to the things you don't want to See, But you can't close your Heart to the things you don't want to Feel. "

We can simply close our eyes on those things we don't want to see but why is it hard for us to close our hearts to those things we don't want to feel to lessen the Pain ?

if we can only close our hearts to the things we don't want to feel then maybe we wouldn't have the feeling of being Hurt, causing us too much Pain. No more Heartache, No more Heart Breaks, No more Pain, No more Sorrow, No more Sadness & Loneliness. we might as well be happy & contended with our loved ones at all time.

it is hard to pretend that your fine even though your not. trying to hide what you really feel, for them not to notice you've got hurt. Pretending there's nothing wrong.

why cant we just be happy without getting hurt ? :(((
why is it to Love a person cause us too much Pain ?

Love is Like Handing Someone a Gun, having Them Point it at your Heart and Trusting Them to Never Pull The Trigger.

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NP: Just Let it Go By: 4tune
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ciVGq6iIh4
 
Relationships ? what does it really mean to be 'in a Relationship ? how'd we manage a Good Relationship with our partners ? how can each relationship be called 'Compatible for Each other' & 'Perfect Two' ?

These are the few questions i always want to ask. But come to think of it. Having these questions cannot give you any possible answer. why ? Relationship is related to Love, and we all know that Love, is hard to define.

Relationship coming from the word "Relation" is a Connection between a two individual person in any aspects. To be 'in a Relationship' means to be "in a Special Connection" with that person. And that Special Connection can only be answered by the BOTH of you. As what i'd told you a while ago this is ONLY a possibility definition, Their is No exact definition of this.

There's No 'Perfect Love' as 'Perfect for Each other' because since the beginning of creation we are already made 'imperfect'. There's No Perfect Relationship and everyone knows that. *Now, if you don't know that then now you know !

Everyone Experience to be Love but it is more Sufficient to earn Love when you're in a Relationship *I'm not saying that you need  to get your self be involve into a relationship just to earn Love but to have that Special Connection gives you a special feeling.

Yes, There is No 'Perfect for Each other' but there might be 'Compatible for Each other'. How ? By having a Healthy Relationship. *And that "Healthy Relationship" ? i might wrote about that as Soon as i have Time :) haha.

As for My 1st Authors Blog Post, i Hope that i had gave you a meaningful meaning of what Relationship means. Though i feel that this Post So Complicated and i Find it kinda Lack of information this is what i can give you for now. :)


wishing you a Merry Christmas
& a Blessed New Year to Everyone :)
Chao ! <3
--Estephanie May
*inspired*

(c) einahpetse yam.